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A Quick Irish Parent’s Guide To Skiing

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I honestly think there’s an unwritten rule that lets us know when it’s almost ski season in Ireland, and it has nothing to do with getting a ruler to measure non-existent snow: you see ski clothes suddenly pop up in the middle aisle of Lidl. And while you’re not going to get inches of it here anytime around Christmas, it’s hard to justify buying those bright, puffy jackets when the hopes that were going to get a snowy blizzard incoming around the colder months are beyond low.

I can tell you one good reason to buy the jackets and Google around though! 

What if you’re already in the midst of planning a big ski holiday for the family this year and it’s your first time taking everyone to the slopes. What do you need to know about booking a ski holiday, what things to buy, and how to make sure everyone stays safe while having fun on a family ski holiday?

Well before you start looking up how much it costs to add a pair of skis to your luggage (you never need to btw) let me fill you in on some of the pre-planning essentials every family needs to do.

Get used to skis on dry land

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Want to avoid bumps, falls and general cluelessness when using skis for the first time? You can prevent getting embarrassed on holiday if you’re lucky enough to be near a ski centre.

There are only two spots in the country I know of that have those outdoors dry slopes you can practice on: the Ski Club of Ireland just south of Dublin on the road to Bray, and the Craigavon Golf & Ski Centre up north (you take the M1 exit on the way to Belfast and its beside Lough Neagh). 

It’s not exactly the same as the alps, but they do have gentle slopes that help get anyone used to wearing skis for the first time. I think it helps take away some of the jitters everyone in the family (dad included) might get if they leave that first time using skis right up until they’re standing in the middle of the ski resort.

Get a holiday that has all the mod cons included

I love doing a bit of savvy research when booking our family holidays, but when it comes to skiing, it is something you can’t skimp on. It’s important to know that most ski resorts people travel to in Europe (around the Alps in France & Austria) are anywhere from an hour to 3 hours away from an airport.

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Unless you actively like the idea of getting a hire car and traversing up the side of mountain roads for hours, just look and see where you can get a family ski holiday with everything included. For example, Mark Warner ski holidays look after everything to help families have a seamless journey from the airport to the resort. You can do things like book in for lessons, get your ski passes and get equipment sorted before you travel to the resort.

And because you’re in the middle of nowhere for up to a week, I’d suggest treating yourself and going all-inclusive for once. You’ll never want to see yourself trudging through snow first thing in the morning to get a pint of milk at the Spar.

Make sure parents get freedom

Does the resort have a ski school? Grand. Then get the kids signed up and you’ll have freedom all day long (I liken it to leaving them off at regular school). When looking up resorts, see if they offer childcare in the afternoons and evening, so you both get to enjoy the après-ski. 

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Sunday Fun at Tayto Park

Sunday before the school started back we hit Tayto Park for a day of family fun. We had never been before and really didn’t know what to expect. The boys are 7 and 4 so a bit mixed in terms of what interests them. The older is the ultimate thrilled seeker and my youngest man is a bit like myself, pretty much afraid of everything. Having spoke to friends who had been the advice was get there early. We arrive about 15 mins after opening and I was glad to have taken their advice, the car park was busy but there was no queue to get in.

We were kindly gifted admission for our family to Tayto Park, we got our tickets, arm bands and off we went.  It was lovely and quiet inside so we took our time to get or bearings and decide what rides we wanted to do. The first ride in our eyeline was Viking Voyage. My little man was  under the height requirement so I stayed behind with him which to be honest I didn’t mind too much when i caught sight of the dryer machines!! I won’t ruin the rides for anybody going as part of this post however suffice to say this was a mega hit! so much so it was done 3 times…..(and none of those was me!).

Given the little man was under 1.1 which tended to be the height requirement for a lot of the rides in whats known as the Eagle Zone, the youngest and I decided to head for the Zoo part to see the animals. I knew this would be a hit with my animal loving wee man.  I was really surprised with the eclectic collection of animals on show here from vultures, to lions to pygmy goats. It was still nice and quiet so we took our time and observed the animals free from the crowds.  My little man was really enthralled with the owls and the alpacas although he kept telling everybody who would listen that alpacas spit to stand back!!!

We regrouped at the Eagle’s Nest Adventure Zone which was more suited to my younger mans age and height.  It was heading towards the afternoon now and it was getting visibly busier but we didn’t queue long for any of the rides. Staff were efficient loading and reloading the rides each time. We pretty much sampled all the rides here from the honey pots, to the steam train, the rocking tug, pony rail, the Ferris wheel, the climbing wall, the shot tower and my favourite the carousel. There is something of an old school magic about a carousel. Also in this zone is the vortex tunnel, a playground and the Nissan Driving School which my oldest really loved. The height requirement for this one 1.1 which was meant a very disappointed 4 year old here. This was a busy activity which is probably the only place we queued for any length of time.

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Summer 2020 long haul planning!

Its funny as the evenings start to get cooler and dark my mind always starts drifting to our long haul choice for 2020. We did Niagara Falls  last year and it was everything we had hoped and more. We like to do one long haul and a number of shorter breaks each year when we can. Almost ten years ago honeymooned in Australia which incorporated a 2 night Bangkok stop over.  The other tourists we spoke to we all headed out to the Islands with Phuket seeming be the most popular.  We decided back then we would return and this time to do the Island and see the stunning beaches we hear so much about.

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Travelling with kids is different, there is more to consider and I find when travelling with kids especially long haul that we tend to favour self catering holidays. It just makes it easier to cook the things they like and to have some more space to get over the jet lag!!!

Perhaps with the kids being a little older Phuket could be a good option for this year.  Phuket is over 17 hours from Dublin with a stop. The fastest I can see is via Doha with Qatar.  Its a long flight so we would need a decent length of time to be able to recover from the flight and enjoy the beautiful surroundings.

Accommodation

Having a nosey at accommodation I came across  Phuket Villa Finder and oh my god those pools! The dream.  My mind is wandering to waking up to those views and a pre breakfast swim just wow. There are over 250 really impressive properties in Phuket to choose, picking just one will be the hard part. I had a look at a good few villas and the quality looks exceptional. It seems they also can offer airport pick up and organise things like a chef etc during your stay. That’s great peace of mind to know that support is available should you need it especially as I say when travelling with young kids.

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What I like about this site its is sustainable credentials. For each villa booked and confirmed, Villa Finder will plant a tree in Sumatra, Indonesia. To date I believe they have planted over 6,000 trees creating valuable employment, habitats and health benefits to these regions.

Having a look at things to do in Phuket aside for chilling and admiring the incredible views there is also the beautiful old town to visit. While Phuket might be known for its beaches and nightlife there is so much more to do and any families I know who have been really love it and comment on its family friendliness.

If you have been do comment below with any must see sights. For now im dreaming of pink sunsets while chilling in the pool of a rental villa overlooking the sea.  Even wider there are so many stunning destinations to tempt you for your Asia adventure. An Asian adventure is definitely a strong contender for The Mamma Fairy long haul destination 2020.

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Saving vs. Investing for Your Retirement

Whether you’re in your early twenties and just out of college, or you’re a thriving professional just a few years away from retirement, it’s always a good time to think about your growing your nest egg. There are a number of ways to do that, and Central Willamette Credit Union is committed to helping you understand each of them. Two of the most popular ways to grow your money for retirement are through saving and investing. We’ll go over the pros and cons of each to show you the differences when it comes to saving vs. investing.

Which Is in Your Best Interest?

coinsThe first thing to know about investments is that they come in many forms. Mutual funds, stocks, and real estate are just a few examples of the many types of investment opportunities you could pursue. Essentially, an investment is anything that’s expected to bring you a return on your money and help it grow over time.

First having a look at shares, they are inherently risky but with risk can often come high return when you sell or other like astrazeneca shares they can pay a good dividend.   But you need to consider yourself what level of risk you have an appetite for and how often you need an income stream either via a regular dividend or at the upon sale. Always good to consult an expert in this area as if you are like me this is a minefield to get to grips with.

There’s something in the financial world known as compound interest. Compound interest can work for or against you. For example, if you take out a loan, the interest will cause the principal amount borrowed to grow so that you wind up owing more money over time. But on the other hand, compound interest can work to your advantage.

Let’s look at the annual return rate of the S&P 500, a stock market index that tracks the stocks of 500 of the largest companies in the US. It’s generally viewed as a good indicator of how well the market is performing. Historically speaking, the S&P 500’s annual compound rate of return is roughly 10 percent.

Now, let’s look at an example. Let’s say you’re 35 years old and decide that you want to start preparing for retirement by investing in mutual funds. You invest a modest $10,000 to start out, and you don’t contribute any additional money over time. Assuming a 10 percent compound rate of return, by the time you hit 65, you’ll have close to $175,000 saved for retirement. A nice amount, but not necessarily enough for a long retirement.

So let’s look at the same example again. You’re 35 years old when you make an initial investment of $10,000, but this time you contribute a monthly amount of $200. You do this faithfully over the course of 30 years. At the end of that 30-year period, your initial $10,000 investment will have grown to about $570,000.

Of course, the earlier you begin investing, the more your money will be able to grow. That’s because compound interest’s best friend is time. Likewise, the later you begin to invest, the more aggressive you will have to be with the amount of money you set aside. If you want to see how compound interest could work in your particular situation, try this compound interest calculator. You can plug in the numbers that apply to you and adjust it to see how much you’ll need to invest in order to get to your desired retirement nest egg.

Saving, on the other hand, refers to setting aside a certain amount of your income, typically to obtain a financial goal. It could be for something small, like saving for an annual vacation, or for something larger, such as saving for retirement. If you’re doing the latter, it’s typically recommended that you save 10 to 15 percent of your annual income. So if you make $50,000 a year, you’ll want to set aside between $5,000 to $7,500 a year for retirement. Assuming your salary doesn’t change, setting aside $7,500 a year, or $625 a month, would net you $225,000 over the course of 30 years.

Can you make compound interest work for you when saving? Yes and no. It’s possible to open a savings account with an interest rate that will help you grow your money, but typically, interest rates on savings accounts are much lower than those earned in the stock market, for example. A typical annual yield on a savings account, for instance, may be 0.05 percent. Based on this interest rate and our example above, you would wind up with about $226,640 at the end of the 30-year period.

Now let’s take a look at saving vs. investing with the previous example. If we start with an initial amount of $10,000, set aside $200 a month and continue to save over the course of 30 years with an annual yield of 0.05 percent, we wind up with about $82,675. That’s significantly less than what we accumulated when we were investing the same amount with a compound rate of return of 10 percent. That’s the power of compound interest.

Worth the Risk?

So if that’s the case, you should just invest all your money, right? After all, who doesn’t want to wind up with the most amount of money possible for retirement? Well, not so fast. Remember when we said that compound interest could work for you or against you? That’s the case with investing as well. You have to be able to weather those ups and downs in what can sometimes be a volatile market. Sometimes those volatile years occur back to back, meaning you can lose money through investing just as quickly as you were able to earn it.

Let’s take another look at the S&P 500. If you take a look at this chart, you’ll see that just last year, the market saw a negative return. But looking back to the early 2000s, the market took even more of a hit. Investments saw a negative return of roughly 9, 12 and 22 percent in 2000, 2001, and 2002, respectively. Jump ahead to 2008, and you’ll see that the market saw an astounding 37 percent loss. That’s why investing can be risky.

Saving, however, is relatively safe. You can grow your money in your bank account without fear of loss. If your money is kept in a federally insured bank or credit union, you are insured up to $250,000 per financial institution. Saving provides financial security for your future without the risks that often come with investing.

There are other noteworthy differences when it comes to saving vs. investing. You may have heard of the term liquid asset. Cash, for instance, is a liquid asset. When you save for retirement, you have that money at your disposal to be used for whatever purpose. However, investing means that your money is sometimes tied up and not readily accessible. This is what we call a non-liquid asset. If you invest in land or real estate, for instance, it could take quite some time to sell that property and convert its value into cash. That’s another factor to consider when deciding whether you want to save or invest for retirement.

At Central Willamette, they are committed to helping you find the best solution for you. They offer a variety of savings and investment accounts to help you build wealth for the future. We’ll help you find the solution that best fits your needs. There are many factors to consider when it comes to retirement. Schedule an appointment with one of their financial advisors so they can put you on the path toward an early one.

 

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Mamma Musings

Helping Your Child Transition from Nursery to School

Starting school means many new changes for your child. They will need to learn their way around a much bigger space than nursey and they will need to get to know new teachers and new friends. They will also need to adjust to a new school routine and learn how to be more independent.

All of these changes can come as quite a shock for some children; however, there are many ways that parents can help to prepare their children for the transition from nursery to school. 
To help you get started, here are some helpful tips from Taunton School

Get familiar 

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It is important to get to know your child’s new school as early as possible, in order to help them settle in quicker. Take your child along to open days and events at the school to help them learn their way around. It is also a good idea to arrange a visit on a normal school day, so that your child can get an idea of what to expect from daily school life. You can also find useful information on the school website, such as uniform requirements or term dates.

Show support

Your child is bound to feel nervous about starting their new school. Show your support by letting them know that what they are feeling is normal and relate it to a time when you felt the same. This could be when you started school or a new job. Then move on to another good memory from that day to reinforce a positive outlook. Talk to your child about some of the positive changes they can expect from school, such as bigger playgrounds or choosing books from the school library.

Encourage independence

Finally, one of the most useful things you can do to prepare your child for school is to make sure they are comfortable doing simple tasks by themselves. This includes: dressing and undressing, putting on and taking off shoes, as well as going to the toilet and washing their hands.

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How to Tell If Your Child is Happy at School

Every parent hopes that their child will enjoy school and happily run into class when the bell goes. However, in reality school can be a very challenging environment for children and some may find it harder than others to settle.

To help you to assess your child’s happiness at school, it is important to regularly ask your child about their school life and carefully observe their behaviour. Here are some great tips from Mill Hill School on what to look out for…

Mornings

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In the morning, is your child happy to get ready for school and do they leave the house without a fuss? School mornings are always a rush and are often a stressful time for parents, however, unless your child seems worried or upset about going to school, you shouldn’t feel concerned.  If your child does appear reluctant to go to school or regularly complains of feeling unwell, then this behaviour should be closely monitored, as it could be a sign of a problem at school.

Home time

At home time is your child keen to talk about their day? Do they want to share interesting facts that they have learnt in the classroom? Or tell you about what they have planned for tomorrow?
This is a good sign and shows that your child is interested and actively involved in their lessons.   If your child seems unusually quiet and reluctant to talk about school then there could be an issue that needs your attention.

Homework

When your child comes home with homework are they keen to get it done? Do they want to show off their skills? If your child is happy to receive homework and keen to do it independently, then this is a really good sign that your child is happy at school and enjoying their current topics.  Should you notice your child avoiding homework or missing deadlines, then it is time to intervene. Your child may simply find the current work difficult and require extra support.

 

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10 Top Tips to Help Your Child Perform Well in School

There are many ways in which parents can help their children to make the most of their education and perform well at school. A great place to start is by taking an interest in your child’s school life. The more supported a child feels at home, the more effectively he or she will perform at school.

To help your child to make the most out of their education, here are a few great tips from Manor Lodge School

  1. Always show encouragement towards school and learning and show appreciation for your child’s achievements to help boost their confidence. 
  2. Help to develop a love of learning, by demonstrating that learning can happen anywhere, not just in the classroom. This can be achieved by simply observing the wildlife in your own garden.

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  3. Explain the importance of learning and talk together as a family about what you have learnt every day. This will motivate your child to listen in class.
  4. Create a calendar for your child to help them to prepare for exams and homework. This will also help to develop your child’s organisation and time management skills.
  5. Try not to set your expectations too high and instead allow your child to develop at their own pace. By putting too much pressure on children you can negatively affect their academic performance and cause stress.
  6. When helping with homework, try to give your child helpful feedback instead of criticism. This means helping your child to think about different ways of solving questions.
  7. Get to know your child’s teachers and try to be a part of the school community. This will show your child how much you care about their education. 
  8. Encourage your child to ask questions and teach you about interesting things they have learnt. Get them to role play being the teacher. Repeating what the teacher has explained in class will help to store this information in their memory.
  9. Support your child’s literacy skills by regularly reading with them. This could be reading a story at bedtime or asking your child to read a recipe while you cook together.
  10. Learn together in your free time by visiting interesting places like museums, or by using educational online resources. 
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Smart technology to keep your home secure

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Liberty Insurance knows advances in technology mean that it’s never been easier or more affordable to secure your home, that’s why they’ve brought you these tips on how to use smart technology to improve home security. 

 The devices remain pretty much the same but now alarms, locks, sensors and cameras are connected by Bluetooth and Wi-Fi, can be monitored and controlled remotely by apps and any data like audio or video can be stored in the cloud to be viewed later. And now with the internet of things, they can all be controlled from an automated hub like Amazon Echo, Google Home or Hive. With a little DIY know-how, you can protect your home and not break the bank doing it.

Cameras

Camera technology has advanced at an unbridled pace since the introduction of the smartphone and that affordable tech can be found in the home security camera. Even some of the most basic camera kits come with High-Definition and night-vision capability and can record onto a hard drive or to the cloud via Wi-Fi. And with an app, you can even check in on your home when you’re lying on a beach in the Costas. 

Cameras can be mounted externally, internally and even on out buildings. However, there is one obvious weakness to a Wi-Fi only set up and that is your Wi-Fi itself. If the Wi-Fi goes down and the modem is not rebooted, then your cameras won’t have anywhere to send their video. Hard-wiring your cameras into a hard-drive is an obvious solution but would almost certainly require a professional to install the system.

Video Doorbells & Smart Locks

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Once the preserve of the very wealthy, video door-bells are becoming more and more commonplace as they become more affordable. With Wi-Fi and an app, you can now see who is calling at your front door without having to leave the comfort of your armchair. Indeed, you can instruct delivery drivers to leave parcels at your door while you are in work through the face-time function on the app. They come with HD and night vision and recording also.

Some video-doorbells connect to a smart lock which allows you to remotely open the lock so a child or workman can enter your house while you are not at home. 

Smart locks not connected to a video doorbell use a variety of Wi-Fi and Bluetooth that connect with your phone to lock and unlock, but you can also choose from a wide range of touch screen and fingerprint locks also. Its important also to always keep the number of a local locksmith close by too for emergencies.

Window & Door Sensors

A smart window or door sensor will send a notification to your phone of when the window or door is opened. They also come with alarms and can be programmed to suit your needs and some even come with small tiny cameras.

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Crying Baby: What To Do When Your Newborn Cries

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When your precious newborn that is wearing one of the most adorable baby clothes cannot stop crying and you are trying to soothe him or her the best way you can – it is a frustrating experience. You try feeding him or her, rocking the baby, or holding the baby and nothing works. There are times when babies do need to cry for the sake of exercising their lungs as it is a necessary part of their development. There is nothing that you can do to soothe them for that. In that case, it really is the best approach for them to cry it out in their crib or bassinet because that is what they really do need to do. However, let’s look over the variety of reasons that babies cry and what you can do to respond.

The Baby Is Hungry

This is the obvious reason for a baby to cry. The younger the baby is, the more often they will be hungry as their stomachs are tiny and can only hold so much in, and they get hungry again fast. That is why they cry often. If your baby is crying out of hunger, there usually are other signs that support that which is lip-smacking and moving a hand to the mouth. 

They Want To Suck Something

Babies that cry may only want to suck on something. If you offer them a bottle or if you try to nurse them but they move away from it, then that means they are not hungry. If you give them a pacifier and they are quieted down, then that is all they wanted. Sometimes babies will cry just for the purpose of wanting something to suck on. And it happens a lot because sucking is soothing to them as they did a lot of that in the womb. 

They Feel Lonely

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Babies do want company and the one thing that they can only do to let you know that they want some company is that they cry because that is the only way they are able to communicate. If you try feeding your baby, and the baby resists, and if you try to give your baby a pacifier and spits it out after, try holding your baby against the chest. If the infant quiets down after, then that is exactly why the baby was crying. He or she was lonely and wanted to be held.

They Are Tired

If you have a crying baby and you have tried to hold him or her but it doesn’t help, you have tried to feed the infant but the baby is not interested, and you gave the baby a pacifier but again, he or she wasn’t interested – then there is another reason that the baby is crying. He or she is simply tired. Again, the baby has no idea how to communicate this fact and will cry when or he or she is tired. And the best thing that you can do is rock your him or her and then put your baby into the crib and bassinet. If he or she falls asleep quickly, then that is why the baby was crying in the first place. Newborns need over 16 hours of sleep a day because they are growing. It is just in intervals as they need to be fed, changed, and need company often in between. 

They Are Wet Or Have A Soiled Diaper

One of the first things that many parents do when their baby begins to cry is to check their diaper, however, sometimes they can urinate often and if it was dry a few minutes ago, it can be wet at any time. A wet, or a soiled diaper is uncomfortable to sit in for a prolonged period of time and that will most definitely cause the baby to cry! 

They Want To Be Swaddled

Newborns feel the most secure when they are swaddled and as a result, if they are not, they will cry. If you try feeding and comforting your infant in other ways but it doesn’t work, then all your baby may want is swaddling. This will bring them the comfort they need and bring them back to those comfort memories as well of being in the womb as they were in that position for 9 months or so. 

They Are Hot Or Cold

Babies who are not comfortable temperature-wise will cry. If you are feeling cold, then there is a good chance that your baby is as well. And the rule of thumb is to place one extra layer on the baby if the baby is wearing clothing that would be comparable to what you are wearing. That means if your baby is wearing those cute baby onesie sayings clothes that have the same thickness as your clothing and the baby seems cold – then put a light jacket on. If the baby is warm, then remove a layer. You don’t want your baby to become overheated.  

Never neglect a high temperature as it could be a sign of something else at play. For peace of mind it is always worth getting it checked out. Even when im travelling I always make a point of knowing where the  pediatric urgent care near me is located.

They Want To Get Moving

Often babies cry because they hate being still and want motion. This means they will want to be rocked or they will want to be taken out on a stroll. If the baby quiets down after getting some movement, then that was the reason that he or she was crying. 

Remember again that the only ways that babies can ever communicate their needs are by crying. Yes, it is distressful to parents because it involves a lot of guesswork and there is the worry that the baby is sick. And that is a reason that the baby is crying as well but that is the last thing to be assumed. Eventually, you will get the reason right as far as why the baby is crying. And often what happens is that over time a baby will develop their own unique cries for their own different needs which will eliminate a lot of stress. That is because when the baby develops their own cries for different things, the parents will know! 

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Establishing a Good School Routine

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Good organisation is key to a stress-free routine, particularly with regards to the morning school run. Below are some tips from an independent school in London to help parents master a good school routine.

The first rule of thumb is to always prepare everything the night before; homework, school bags, packed lunch and uniform. Anything that you or your child will need in the morning should be ready before you all go to bed. As a result, all you’ll have to do is eat breakfast, brush your teeth and get dressed, which should take no time at all. You can even go as far as planning breakfast.

If you want everything to run smoothly in the mornings, getting enough sleep is vital, so encourage your kids to have an early night. You’re all far more likely to wake up on time, feeling refreshed, if you’ve had a sufficient amount of sleep. 

As a parent, it’s a good idea to be up and ready before your children so that you can dedicate your time completely to helping them once they wake up. Once organisation and great timekeeping has become a habit for you, you’ll notice it becoming increasingly easier for you all. The trick is not to panic or rush; it’s better to be 5 minutes late and have everything in order than be on time but half dressed. 

Make sure you have a plan of action for after school that your kids are also well aware of. They’ll need to know who’s picking them up and what time or they might require some change for the bus. Either way, it should all be planned in advance. Encourage them to prioritise their homework, but be sure to reward them and let them have some leisure time once it’s complete. 

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